manger : Idioms & Phrases
A dog in the manger
- an ugly-natured person who prevents others from enjoying what would be an advantage to them but is none to him.
Webster 1913
dog in the manger
- 
       noun someone who prevents you from enjoying something that they themselves have no need for
        
      
 
WordNet
To live at rack and manger
- to live on the best at another's expense. Colloq.